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Its tough to see or hear of a friend in crisis. One idea to keep in
mind is that it is healthy for the distressed person to feel what he
or she feels in the moment. When a person in crisis feels
understood, he or she feels less alone and connected to the person
who understands.
A person who experiences empathy(同理心)from a friend who can “go
there” for a few minutes in order to authentically understand while
still maintaining a strong and supportive attitude may be relieving
and healing. While a friend is telling you about the circumstance,
the first and most important step is to listen for feelings, not
ways to solve the problem.
For example, a friend is terribly upset because her husband is
threatening to leave her. After fully honoring the feelings, it is
important to ask the friend what would help. Maybe it is a good cry
and some ice cream. Perhaps its a glass of wine and a walk. Everyone
has different ways of dealings. Be respectful and ask the friend what
she needs or wants, not what you prescribe.
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