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2022-08-08
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Today
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Lv Guangyao shares his point of view on good relationships and good life. From his
point of view, It is not the money or the fame but good relationship that makes a good life. And
he suppose that good relationship is comprised of respect, distance, warmthand so on. Then, he
discusses about how to make a good relationship.
In that Lv Guangyao said that how to make It is a lifelong question, I wanna to give my own
answers from my past 18 years relationship between others.
1. Communication
We've definitely heard the very cliché “communication is key.” But here’s the thing – it’s a
cliché for a reason. Good communication is one of the most important aspects to having a healthy
relationship. When starting a new relationship, it’s important to be able to talk about what you
both want and expect. Sometimes this means being honest and having uncomfortable
conversations, but if you’re in a healthy relationship your partner will be receptive and listen
(and you should do the same). Being on the same page as your partner goes a long way and
opening up to your partner about what’s bothering you, compromising over your disagreements
and complimenting each other are all equally as important. While communication is important,
you should both be comfortable with how often you talk to one another. If your partner needs
you to always answer right away and text them all day long, and you don’t want that, that’s not
healthy. On the flip side, if your partner is always ignoring your texts and it doesn’t make you
feel good, then that’s not healthy either. Finding a communication balance that you’re both
comfortable with is super important.
2. Boundaries
We all have personal boundaries on what makes us feel good, comfortable, safe, etc. In a
healthy relationship, you should feel 100% comfortable communicating those boundaries and
know that they will be respected (and vice versa for your partner). Remember that you shouldn’t
feel nervous or scared to set personal boundaries in any relationship. And if you feel like your
partner or friend is using boundaries to control you, like telling you not to hang out with friends
or requiring you to share passwords, it’s time to rethink the relationship!
3. Trust
This is a big one. All healthy relationships require mutual and unguarded trust between
partners. Regardless of what either partner has experienced in the past, in a healthy relationship
your partner will trust you completely. Do remember that it takes time to build trust in a
relationship and that when your partner fully trusts you with their feelings, you should respect
them and not betray their trust. Cheating on them or doing things to make them jealous isn’t
right. On the flip side, if you don’t trust your partner then you shouldn’t be with them. Don't ever
let your partner use their lack of trust or past experiences as an excuse to control you, question
you or otherwise make you feel as though you need to exert all your strength to earn their trust.
Steadfast affection, support, respect, and communication will naturally strengthen the trust in
your relationship.
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